I am 29 with an advanced degree but moved to Florida to escape the pressure of the real world for a little while. That turned into years and I fell in love with the only girl I have ever truely loved. I also have a great group of friends that make living here like college with money. I have been incredibly immature partying too much and didn’t treat her the way I should have. I had financial difficulty because the industry I worked in colapsed and I believed in it till the end and it devestated me financially.
She broke up with me because I was too immature, couldn’t handle my finances and didn’t project to her what I really wanted in the future while she was clear with what she wanted a husband and a family.
Now I realize the terrible mistake I have made and want nothing more than to make things right. I have found a promising new career and am moving on with my life with less partying exc…. I want to be the man she expected me to be from the begining.
What can I do?